Tuesday, September 4, 2012



VERY important reminder ya akhawati fillah.
She says;
''Assalamou aleykoum wa rahmatoullah wa barakatouh,
to begging, i swear to God that my story is true, and i want to share it with my sisters because i love you, i fear for you, i will try to resume my story to the maximum.
Like ever young women; i want to get married, Al hamdoulillah God has granted my wish. I met a brother on facebook, we met each-other, then we met up in a hotel room. He lied down on the bed and give me a sign to join him, And then things happened that i am ashamed to talk about since it was brother who wore the sounnah [The beard and the Qamis]. 
After that I got married to him. Our life as a couple was chaotic.
Then my husband told me that he wanted to meet another sister. He told me that he wanted to meet her either to make her a second wife or to get married to her just in case we'd divorce. - So he created a facebook account to find his future wife. And he asked me if he could pretend to be me[ on facebook]. I Refused. But then he made me feel guilty, and told me that i owned him obedience. So i didn't have the choice. 
I swear it me upset to see all these married sisters share their problems about their marriage while thinking it was a woman; when in fact it was my Husband.
It hurt me to see all these sisters sending their pictures and showing their awrah[adornments] to my husband while thinking it was a woman. 
It killed me to see all these sisters confide in my husband behind that computer screen while thinking it was a WOMAN. 
YOU, my sisters who hears me, maybe that my husband has a picture of YOU on his phone or on his computer and You don't Even know. 
The worst in this; is when a sister had a doubt my husband made me phone the sister, so that when she would hear my voice she would be convinced that she is talking to a woman. He would give me a few information on her then i had to talk to her like she was my friend when she was a complete stranger to me. I feel bad about what i did. - I helped my husband to betray sisters. But i had no choice. He made me feel guilty by always reminding me that i owned him obedience. My sisters facebook is a great fitna. it contains more harm then good. I long hesitated to write because i was scared that my husband would find out and that he will harm me for having denounced him, But i prefer to WARN you.
Lastly sisters i would like to tell you that a pious husband is not found on facebook or on msn; and i am very well placed to know this. 
In case you’re speaking to a brother do no think that he is trustworthy just because he has a beard and wear the Qamis, because he is still a man with his desires and and your are still a woman with yours, and the worst in this is that cheytan is your third. Once you would have lost your virginity or you have had a baby in the haram, all the tears and regrets will be useless. 

NEVER FORGET MY SISTER, THAT YOU WILL NEVER OBTAIN HALAL BY PASSING THROUGH THE HARAM.’’
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      HIJAB WORLD DAY


O prophet Tell Thy Wives And Daughters,
And the believing Women,
That they should cast their Outer Garments
over their persons (when abroad):
that is the most convenient that they should be
 known (as such) and not molested 
and ALLAH is on forgiving, Most merciful
(SURA AhZAAB 33:59 )

Monday, September 3, 2012

The true Muslim woman is not arrogant or proud; she does not look down her nose at other women who may be inferior to her in terms of beauty, wealth, lineage or status, because the Muslim woman who understands the teachings of Islaam knows that arrogance and pride in this world will deny a woman the blessings of the Hereafter, which Allaah will deny to men and women who are arrogant.

''They talk about me because I'm different. I laugh at them because they are all the same''. 

I’m a Muslim woman
Feel free to ask me why
When I walk,
I walk with dignity
When I speak
I do not lie

I am a Muslim woman
Not all of me you’ll see
But what you should appreciate
Is that the choice I make is free

I’m not plagued with depression
I’m neither cheated nor abused
I don’t envy other women
And I’m certainly not confused

Note, I speak perfect English
So you need not speak slowly

You often stare as I walk by
You don’t understand my veil
But peace and power I have found
As I am equal to any male!

I am a Muslim woman
So please don’t pity me
For God has guided me to truth
And now I’m finally free!
Narrated Abu Huraira: The Prophet said, “A woman is married for four things, i.e., her wealth, her family status, her beauty and her religion. So you should marry the religious woman (otherwise) you will be a losers. (Volume 7, Book 62, Number 27:Bukhari).

Assalam-u-alaikum to all,Today i’d just like to tell everyone what a muslimah really is.
A Muslimah:
She is the one who provides Jannah for her mother, father, brother, sister, husband and many more with her deeds.
She makes a House a Home.
She completes everyone around her, raising her children to be followers of Islam and the Sunnah, Holding her husbands hand and taking him to Jannah.
She maintains the respect of her household.
When she is a young girl, she cares for her Mother and Father and provides a helping hand to her siblings.
When she’s a wife, she provides support and stands strong as a pillar next to her husband.
When she is a mother, she is forever worried for her children’s safety and provides them with everything she’s capable of and nurtures them like no other, Which is why Jannah is under the feet of the mother. 
She is Allah (swt) gift to the world, she wears a hijab for his happiness and to protect her family honor, she submits herself completely to her religion, and that makes her a Muslimah.